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20 Money Saving Tips For
Traveling with a Large Group.

Introducing Jeana Mitchell:
Jeana is the mother of seven kids. An expert on crowd control and stretching a buck, she recently found the time to give our readers some terrific advice in the comments sections of our posts “The Slacker Parent and the Travel Friendly Child”  and the “10 Essential Packing Rules”. We’re very pleased she has agreed to share some additional travel tips with Family Hack.

Happy Feet

Vacation “packages” are set up for families of four. Having a family of nine can make vacationing on a budget a real challenge. However, it can be done! Here are some tips we have used to cut costs on our vacations without cutting out the fun.

1. BE NICE!

Make friends with the staff at the hotel or campground you are visiting. Tipping well once or twice will make you a friend of all the staff. Train your children to be polite and helpful to the staff. This goes miles if you are a large group and works on several levels.

  1. The staff knows the area, and normally is happy to help you find great deals.
  2. The staff knows if there are discount tickets behind the counter, and they do not have to make it public knowledge.
  3. They will share if they like you.

2. SHOP LIKE A NATIVE!

Before getting to your destination, locate at least two shops you would like to visit. When you’re there, ask the shopkeeper if they can recommend any other shops…they can! They will also usually tell you which grocery has the best deals as well. Also, grocery coupons that work in California, will work in New York.

3. BUY A MEMBERSHIP!

For our family, the cost of a membership is roughly the same as visiting one time. Even if your family needs two or three visits to make up the cost, check out the fine print and see if your local museum, zoo, or science center has a membership program, find out if they are partnered with reciprocal facilities. If so, most will honor your membership and let you in free or at least for 50% off. Children universally love these places and they tend to be very different. As a bonus, most reciprocal facilities offer discounts in the gift shop as well. Check these websites for science centers and zoos that have programs nationwide:

Association of Science-Technology Centers
Association of Zoos and Aquariums

4. MAKE A CHECKLIST!

Make a travel checklist on fun or brightly colored paper and use it. This gives you time to figure out what is missing and put it in the bag before you go. Personalize a checklist for each member of the family, leave a few spaces blank so kids can add their own items to the checklist. Pack the checklists in each individual’s bag so nothing is left behind.
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Diaper Alternatives:
What To Do About Doo Doo

cloth diapers

A new baby — one of the first thoughts that comes to mind is diapers. A minimum of two years of them. It’s one of the automatic expenses and hassles of modern child rearing. But, since we’re in the habit of questioning common assumptions, we have to ask the question: is there another way? Of course. Parents in other parts of the world and throughout history haven’t had the diapering, or even laundering options that we have. What do they do?

Elimination Communication

One of the answers is EC (i.e. elimination communication). I used to have a negative bias toward EC on the premise that it was simply early potty training — a throwback to the 1950s when our fore mothers were instructed to give solid foods at two weeks of age and potty train around the first birthday. Now I understand that EC is not so much about early potty training, but about not diaper training — an entirely different concept.

EC involves tuning into your baby’s elimination needs and trying to help them keep clean and dry through heightened parent-child communication, rather than simply putting something hyper-absorbant on them and forgetting it for a few years. While not everyone’s lifestyle can accommodate this method, it does make a lot of sense, and is a healthy option for babies and the earth. It is also possible to incorporate parts of this method into your baby’s life, even if you can’t do it completely. Check out the following books and links for more information.

BOOKS:

Diaper Free: The Gentle Wisdom of Natural Infant Hygiene
The Diaper-Free Baby: The Natural Toilet Training Alternative
Infant Potty Basics: With or Without Diapers–The Natural Way

LINKS:
Diaper Free Baby
Natural Family Online
Natural Wisdom

Cloth Diapers

Another baby-friendly, earth-friendly, and budget-friendly option is cloth diapering. Once you get the hang of it, washing diapers isn’t really that big a hassle — and you can also go with a diaper service if you really can’t handle that part. Check out the National Association of Diaper Services website to find a service near you.

Cloth diapering today needn’t involve the pins and plastic pants of our grandmothers experience. Velcro and snap-closure “diaper covers” or “wraps” allow you to diaper a squirmy little one without trying to use a sharp object at the same time. “All in one” cloth diapers, are as easy to use as disposables — you just don’t have to throw them away after one use! They even make disposable diaper liners that allow you to transfer the poopy mess to the toilet without any dunking — especially great if you cloth diaper while traveling.

All the cloth diapering options can be overwhelming at first. Fitted or flat? Velcro or snap? Sized or one size? Wool? Cotton? Hemp? Organic? And what the hell is a “pocket diaper?”. The good news is that with all the options out there, a little research will yield a cloth diapering system for almost any budget and lifestyle. You may not be able to save the world, but covering your child in something soft and comfy and not dumping thousands of diapers in a landfill is a good place to start. Check out the following links for more information on cloth diapers.

The Diaper Hyena
The definitive cloth diapering resource site: includes product reviews, diapering techniques, diaper-making information, and sources for WAHM-made cloth diapers.

Real Diaper Association
A non-profit organization providing cloth diapering support and education — an invaluable resource.

The Poop on Eco-Friendly Diapers
An article from Wired Magazine that delves into the good the bad and the ugly of disposable, cloth and the new “biodegradable” diapers, and the implications of their use in environment, health and business.

Mothering Magazine’s wonderful archive of cloth diapering articles.
Also check out mothering.com’s discussion forum for cloth diapering info from other parents.

The Diaper Pin
Product reviews, forums, and how-tos.

The Diaper Swappers
A forum for moms looking to buy/sell used and homemade diapers.

The Daily Unfinisher
A blog post recounting one woman’s “switch to cloth diapers”.

Where to Buy Cloth Diapers

Barefoot Baby
Wild Flower Diapers
Baby Kicks (specializing in natural hemp fiber products)
Katie Kisses
Baby Works
Baby’s Abode
Green Mountain Diapers

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Classroom To-Go:
Brain Builders for Kids on the Road.

Khymi in the car.

“Why do they call it homeschooling if we’re never home?”
— A favorite bumpersticker

I grew up (and was homeschooled) in a rural area, where it took an hour to get anywhere and an average of two hours to get the place you needed to go. My parents figured out in pretty short order that if we didn’t take advantage of our time in the car, I wasn’t going to have much in the way of formal education. Car time evolved into one of the most focused and structured part of my homeschooling life. In fact, I think one of my main motivations to get my driver’s license was to get away from algebra.

I’ll occasionally hear my homeschooling-parent friends lament a day of travel or errands as a day “lost” from homeschool. Of course, I find myself thinking “what are you talking about? That’s the best time to do schoolwork. Hey, the kids are strapped in; they can’t get away!” Of course, in all seriousness, homeschooling on the road does present challenges: reading and writing, probably the backbone of a lot of your school activities at home, are difficult, if not just impossible to accomplish in a moving vehicle; reading can cause carsickness, and writing with anything sharper than a crayon is probably a bad idea. But, if necessity is the mother of invention, these limitations should only inspire us to greater creativity. I’m firmly convinced that travel time is a great homeschool opportunity. Here are some good resources to jumpstart learning on the go.
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Family Hack’s — Best of 2007

As 2007 comes to a close, we’re going to partake in some shameless self-promotion and award some of last year’s posts a “best of 2007″ designation. This may seem silly but it means a lot to the winning posts. They get a spiffy T-Shirt, a case of cheap beer and bragging rights at the next blog post convention. Plus, chicks dig it. Continue reading ‘Family Hack’s — Best of 2007′

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Safe Toys your Kid’s will Love…for more than 5 minutes.

Khymi Wings

Many parents are going into this year’s holiday shopping season with confusion and apprehension following the rash of toy recalls and concerns over lead and otherwise contaminated plastics.

So what are the concerns about?

PVC (polyvinyl chloride) or vinyl
PVC is used in some soft and flexible plastics. PVC also contains lead as an additive—and there are no standards regulating the amount. Children who play with PVC toys are exposed to lead, as well as phalates, which have been linked to cancer and reproductive problems. The European Union, fourteen other countries, and California have already banned the use of phalates in children’s products.

BPA (bisphenol A)
BPA is used in some hard, clear plastics. Used to make plastic baby bottles and other food containers. BPA mimics estrogen and has been linked to multiple diseases and developmental problems. Continue reading ‘Safe Toys your Kid’s will Love…for more than 5 minutes.’

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10 Tips for a Smooth Travel Day with Kids.

Introducing Debbie Dubrow:
Debbie writes the superb DeliciousBaby.com. We’re very pleased she has agreed to share some of her hard earned travel wisdom with Family Hack.

Susan does the SkyMall Scavenger Hunt.

With the holidays fast approaching, it seems like almost everyone I talk with is stressed about bringing their kids on a plane ride, and trying to figure out how to encourage them to be on their best behavior. As with everything else, a little advance preparation and having a few tricks up your sleeve won’t guarantee perfect behavior, but it sure helps!

Here are my top 10…,make that 11 tips for enabling young children to behave well on a plane.

1. Information is King

Good behavior starts by helping your child understand exactly what is going to happen. Without building things up too much, you can begin to talk about the trip a few days before you leave (even for kids as young as one year old). Talk about where you’ll be going (e.g. grandma’s house) and how you’ll be getting there (on a plane). On the day of the flight, lay out exactly what is going to happen. For example: first we’ll take a taxi to the airport, then we’ll go through security, and then we’ll get on the plane and fly to grandma’s . Even very young toddlers understand more than you think, and even if they don’t understand the details, they’ll understand that there is a plan and that everything is ok.

2. Set Expectations

At each stage of the trip (especially through security) point out what is happening, and explain to your child what you expect of them. “Look, there’s the conveyor belt, we get to put our shoes, sippy, and lovey on the conveyor belt and then we will get them on the other side.” Knowing what is expected of them (before they’re in trouble) will help keep your child from getting stressed out and loosing it. Books can help de-mystify travel too, one of our favorites for travel is Planes Board Bookby Byron Barton.
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Make the Most of Post-Halloween Bargains.

Cow Pants

Since I just covered “5 Ways to Get 90% OFF Designer Kid’s Clothes”, let’s take a quick look at how to hack the upcoming post-halloween bargain extravaganza.

1. Think Ahead

This is a great time to buy a costume or two for the year ahead — especially if you have younger children who aren’t interested in picking their own yet. Costumes have usually hit 50% off by halloween, and prices plummet during the week after.

2. The Dress-Up Bin

Even if you aren’t interested in buying things for a year-away event, this is still a great opportunity to restock your kids’ dress-up bin with super-cool masks, wigs, capes, etc. There’s also plenty of face paint available if you’re really brave!

Kids love to lull around the house in fancy princess gowns, climb trees in a superman outfit, or wear a plastic fireman’s helmet in the bathtub. You’re only paying $1 for the privlege, so go ahead and let them!

3. Think “Real Clothes”

I’ve recently taken this one step further and started pillaging the costume racks for “real clothes”. You’ll find some super fun funky stuff this time of year, and it costs a fraction of the boring old normal clothes.

One of our favorite outfits last year, and incidentally, the one that got the most compliments, was a pair of “cow pants” (pictured above) that was originally part of a cowboy/cowgirl halloween outfit. I got these at Old Navy for 97 cents a few weeks after halloween. Susie wore them all winter.

I also got a fun leopard print suit (cat costume) at the same time, which was great for crawling around the house on cold winter days. Since it was a costume, it was roomy enough to fit over PJs or other clothes.

Leopard Costume

4. Bad Mommy

Last, but not least, don’t forget to restock your “mommy needs chocolate stash”. You might even get inspired to bring home one of those cheesy french maid or slutty witch outfits that nobody had the nerve to buy to wear in public. Hell, Moms are allowed to have a little fun too!

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5 Ways to Get 90% OFF
Designer Kid’s Clothes.

5 Ways to Save 90% on Designer Kid's Clothing.

There is hardly ever a need to pay full price for kids clothes — even the super nice wear-to-a-wedding ones. Kids grow so fast that their clothes are usually "used" before they are barely worn. So, today we’ll cover 5 ways we dress our kids for a fraction of the full price tag. Continue reading ‘5 Ways to Get 90% OFF
Designer Kid’s Clothes.’

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10 Essential Packing Rules when you’re Traveling with the Kids

1. Pack less than you think you’ll need.

You’re sure to run into something you forgot no matter how much you pack, but shopping for necessary items in your new surroundings will be a fun way to explore and learn some new vocabulary. Plus you’ll have some cool and practical souvenirs of your trip (e.g. "hey, these are the socks we bought in Buenos Aires!")

2.  The above rule does NOT apply to your carry-on items.

There is nothing worse than being stranded with a young child and no snacks, juice, entertainment, or clean shirt — and you definitely don’t want to have to ration your diaper stash! 

  • Pack more diapers than you could possibly use.
  • Separate your diaper stash between two different bags.
    Said from the experience of being stranded on a cross-country flight with NO DIAPERS — really, don’t ask.
  • Take at least TWO spare outfits per child.
    There is no easier way to guarantee a major blow out, than to change your child into your only spare outfit!
  • Have spare clothes and essential toiletries for the adults in a carry-on bag.
    You want to have what you need if you or your bags don’t reach your destination on time.

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